And it always starts with the same feelings of confusion, hesitation and attraction.And women, by nature are completely helpless in such circumstances.Click here to read the experience of having an affair with a married man from the beginning.Of all the relationships you can get into as a girl, dating a married man is one of the worst kinds.I have identified the following rules to change the approach:1. How fun is it to hang out with someone who only puts themselves down? If men aren’t interested in you, it probably isn’t because you aren’t a supermodel, it is probably because they can see how you feel about yourself. You’re entering into a relationship with a married man! You’re the “other woman” who’s dating a married man.And before you know it, you’re way past knee deep, you’re almost choking with the bottled affections you have for this man. [Read: Feel lost in life] You’re marked from the rest of the world. But it doesn’t matter to you, because you know this man loves you, and wants you more than he wants his own wife. He constantly reminds you that he loves you a lot more than he loves his wife, but he’s just not able to walk out, what with his kids, wife, and even his mom involved in the scene.
Dating a married man Indulging in a relationship with married men is confusing, but almost all the experiences that come with it feel the same.Getting into a relationship with married men We love helping people we like out of troubling situations.And admit it, you’d love a man who’s a mess, if he likes you. But when he looks towards you for emotional support and love, the same things his own wife, apparently, doesn’t provide him, you end up falling in love, more with his emotional affairs rather than anything else.The realization – Being used by a married man When I was involved with a married man, I felt terribly used.I hated myself for doing what I was doing, and yet, I couldn’t help myself. That’s what happens to any woman who’s involved with a married man, because when you’re the “other woman” there are no weekends together, no family parties, no meeting friends, nothing.That one conversation in the office cubicle takes you all the way to the coffee shop, the snack bar, the restaurant, and the movie hall.Both of you end up talking about it over the phone, and at some point of time, there’s a total block of his family turmoil. It is heartbreaking to see them make the same mistakes over and over again. All too often, I see friends continually devastated by their dating experiences. Don’t give them your power by allowing yourself to feel bad. He’d love you physically, but his emotions still stay with his real family.This can piss off just about anyone, especially when they’re so madly in love, but the promise of better things to come in the ‘near’ future and the sex is just too good of a promise to spurn the advances of a married man.