Still, I feel that is important for me to share with men less fortunate than I am what I did learn in those few, dare I say precious, years between the end of my first marriage and the beginning of my second - both to women much sought after.To start with, the most important thing for any man trying to attract women is not what you should do and say, but rather what you shouldn't do and say.As for your education and/or earnings, if you think that's important to today's young women, where have you been?Certainly not in a college classroom, where women outnumber men by a ratio of close to three to two.When a woman has noticed you, and is close enough for you to speak to without yelling out, say, "Hi." That's it. Most men should probably stop right there, although if you feel you must go on, and start removing the mystery, there are websites that suggest, as one site puts it, "cute pick-up lines." For example, here's a line from that site: "You can't be real. " Yes, go ahead, use that one, and what you might hear is "Yeah, pinch me, and I'll punch you." Here's another: "What does it feel like to be the most beautiful girl in this room?" Give it a try, but don't be surprised if her reply is "First of all, it's ‘woman.' And now that we've got that settled, how does it feel to be the biggest a-hole in this room?" I'm not saying some women won't go for these lines, but it's better to be original.
No, the key to a young woman's heart today is to tell her that your biggest desire in life is to do everything you can to help her fulfill her dreams. "Hi" works if you know how to say it, as well as a computer can help you discover the cure for a disease or let you watch porn in the afternoons.
Several women often work illegally, in motels or grocery stores, that pay them peanuts.
In January this year, the US introduced a law as part of the Violence Against Women Act 2005, authorising battered wives with H-4 visas to work."It's tough to move to H-1B because of the limited quota," says Sudhir Shah, a Mumbai-based expert on US immigration issues.
This has led to distress, low self-esteem and even an identity crisis.
A survey done on these H-4 visa holders by a US-based attorney Shivali Shah reveals that the H-4 issue creates an extreme dependence on the primary visa holder, and even ends up in broken marriages or wife abuse.