Talk about rebound………he started to email me and call several times per day and because I am not the “rebound” girl, I slowed things down and poof!Leading your life after the loss of a loved one can often feel like an aimless pursuit.You know what a widower’s left with when his wife dies? A man’s inability to survive without a woman is a big explanation why a widower is often a very hot ticket on the open market – he’s LOOKING to be married again. But, at a certain point, a man has to step up and give you a reasonable amount of attention and comfort.Factor in the dearth of older men – there are literally 3 times more single women over the age of 65 – and, well, a decent looking widower doesn’t stay available for very long. And if he fails, he risks losing the woman he cares about.There are no timescales, nor any profile view credits.Once the quick and simple sign up process has been completed, immediate access is granted.The very thing that is probably playing on your mind is obvious to each and every member of our dating site, meaning an increased level of empathy amongst users.
Widowers are QUICK to rebound, to a point of being unseemly.Sending private messages to each other in a safe and familiar environment gives you the opportunity to get to know each other gradually before you decide whether or not you want to take things further.With it’s great diversity and mix of people, Ireland is home to a wide variety of individuals and at it is our number one goal to help you find that special someone who will understand what you’ve been through and with whom you can begin a new journey.Give him another month to try harder and if he fails, walk away.He’ll probably let you go and resume his new life on I had a man write me from whose wife had passed 3 weeks earlier – they had a 38 year marriage – and she died from a recently diagnosed cancer!Next, something I know (and have stated repeatedly) about men – of all ages: We do what we want. Which means that even if many widowers throw themselves into new relationships because of their tremendous loneliness, THIS one seems to be functioning more like your basic super-successful middle-aged man. You can give him an extra-wide berth because he’s newly single, but be forewarned: a man who is newly single (and is keeping a little distance) is probably going to want to get a greater sampling of what’s available instead of diving right back into commitment.If he were lonely and desperate to get married, I’d feel better about your chances, but he’s not.My question is this – does this apply to widowers as well or is it fair to give him a little more time and just get busy with other things so I don’t put pressure on him?He says he has always taken it slow in dating and this is nothing new.I just read your book “Why He Disappeared” and really appreciated the great info.I have not “lost” the guy I’ve been dating for the past 3 months, but I need to fix some of the mistakes I was starting to make. and 1 in Oct.) when we saw each other on Saturday and Sunday (but no sleepover) we have only seen each other once a week.