Once they had been formally introduced, if the gentleman wished to escort the lady home he would present his card to her.
At the end of the evening the lady would look over her options and chose who would be her escort.
He glanced around the room and pointed to a middle-aged man who had been smiling at me.
What was courtship and marriage like for our distant ancestors?
The chances of finding a legitimately single expat male in Uganda are few and far between – and Lord knows we look. The instruction was clear: there’s a hierarchy here, based on how long you have been in the country. His wife’s working in the UK for a few months.” I shouldn’t have been shocked, but I was. “That’s not what I’m looking for.” My friend didn’t say anything.
During the Victorian Era (1837-1901), romantic love became viewed as the primary requirement for marriage and courting became even more formal - almost an art form among the upper classes.
The typical male expat has it handed to him on a plate.
Beautiful young Ugandan women – who may or may not be prostitutes, depending on the bar you frequent – will fall over themselves to make you and your male friends the centre of attention.
If the courting progressed, the couple might advance to the front porch.
Smitten couples rarely saw each other without the presence of a chaperone, and marriage proposals were frequently written.