They start fights, pick on you, push every button you've got and may even accuse you of cheating.Cheaters are good at transferring the guilt onto you -- don't buy into it.When you try calling on their cell phone, you get voicemail.
When you bring up a problem, your partner tells you it's no big deal or tells you that their problems are worse. Even when they're home, you feel a lonely void between you, like there's no one with whom to share your thoughts or feelings. When you suggest making time to connect you get back "" Even if you are still having regular sex, it may seem like they're performing a chore rather than making love.
Suddenly, they're conducting mysterious calls in the other room and when you ask who called, the answer is... " Red Flag #7 They look, smell, and dress better, but not necessarily around you. They might have a change of clothes in the car or in a sports bag that aren't gym clothes.
Your partner may leave the house smelling like soap and come back smelling like perfume or cologne.
While it may be obvious from some of their behavior that they're hiding something, some changes aren't so obvious.
Perhaps they give you an odd glance or there's something cold in their eyes that doesn't quite feel right to you.