I don't care what anyone says but as an over 40s, short guy in the UK, my dating value is low and competition for women is intense.The number of slim attractive women here is not good at all, the dating game really is stacked against you.Has anybody mentioned the lack of game displayed it the op post.I know a dude who's 45 about 5'9 and he's smashing a solid 7 32 year old.Women are women whether they are foreign or English and at times they are hard work to live with.As someone on this forum said women are "Biological takers" and men are "Biological givers", make no mistake your Bulgarian women is just like your English woman and will take from you.
I live in Chesterfield, a small town near Sheffield.My back story, I'm 42, 5ft 6, average looks, reasonable shape.Got married at 30 to your typical lazy English woman, divorced at 33 (no kids), Spent the last 10 years in and out of relationships with English women, basically drifting in terms of dating.Do they (Poles) become fat and lazy after living there for long?The quality of Polish women who come to the UK is not comparable with that in Poland. You didn't say you are in London but I am imagining you are.We did have a couple of bad months, the amount of sex dropped (she was ill), however I have made it quite clear that I need regular sex and the relationship will have problems if my needs are not met (try having that conversation with an English woman) What I would say is that for any guys who are looking for a long term relationship and are fed up with the same old Anglo women, you could do a lot worst than give it a go with a Bulgarian woman, sure they have their faults (all women do), but compared to your typical fat lazy Anglo woman there is no comparison.Also from Jan 2014, Bulgarians are able to work in any EU country without any visa restrictions.I have rarely seen a very attractive Polish girl who has come over here to work. Apartments that are awesome by city-center standards but could be a shock to anyone who grew up in the country. I've heard quite a few horror stories about this from guys who chose to import a foreign chick. I think if you are considering going that route, it's better to live in her country.But I saw lots of very cute girls when I went to Poland. I never considered this option but now you put the thought in my head. 2) Do you speak any Bulgarian or is the relationship all in English? Not her taking petty stuff but she is in your flat all day, your identity and financial account numbers could be in circulation back in Bulgaria. (Today PM) kbell  Has the culture started poisoning her mind?I met my girlfriend last June through a bulgarian online dating website, went out to Sofia last July, did a further 2 visits met her parents, she visited the UK in september for 2 weeks and she moved here in March.My girlfriend comes from a small town 30 miles outside Sofia, worked in a bank, speaks reasonable English, but had never travelled outside Bulgaria.