The Internet has made it a lot easier for us to find each other now. But in truth, black sisters, we’re after the sex, not the ringand these guys aren’t the marrying kind anyway. The woman who goes after black men is a variant of sex journalist Susie Bright’s "white bitch in heat," a woman who puts sex first even though women aren’t supposed to do that.
According to one school of thought, white women turn to black men when their sex drives kick into higher gear and their social inhibitions recede into the rearview mirror.
Yet black men are gentlemen, something else white men no longer are.
I craved it more strongly than Carrie Bradshaw craved Manolo Blahnik shoes.
A black man is so damned sexy because he knows how to make a woman feel sexy.
Black men have something white guys don’t have anymore: confidence in their masculinity, their sexuality. White men appear to be waiting for the latest sociological research study to let them know if they are men or not.
That phrase, "Once you go black, you never go back" is all about the feeling of the skin.
And I had the socially acceptable explanation for my craving.